Saturday, May 15, 2010

How Long Can Fedex Hold A Delivery



Interpersonal relationships are made of small adjustments I think.
You know a new person, spending time together and a bit 'at a time you create a common space, a little' hybrid and a little 'monster in which none of them has its own sake, but when both are close to communicate.
modulate ourselves to make ourselves understood and to understand the other person.
happens to work with their colleagues, families with relatives in romantic relationships and friends.
We have a 'we' very social and quite plain and simple that it can be use with the bus driver to ask where to get off, or with the clerk of the store when asked if his shirt is fine there. And that we expanded the social is not so interesting. The
that we have to build up in the deep relationships is much more interesting because we create something new from what we have.
A good friend of mine told me yesterday: "It's not that I can change to work with this person. I have done so and I will not change." It 's true, but not quite. Because we are still us, but we remount the pieces that make up differently and create something new and more suitable to the person with whom we are interacting. Sometimes it works, sometimes not. But however you try. Because, fortunately, none of us is a single block. None of us is completely black or white or red or yellow. In all, we are a great soup and a mixture of different things from which we can draw on almost indefinitely.
One of the most beautiful things in a relationship that is emerging (apart from sex, cuddling and flights of fancy about the future, the three things that I prefer) is to see this suit, to try to confront and embrace the middle ground in which can be happy.
Most of the time this meeting is thin and the changes are not perceived as easily, it takes time and only after we realize as much of the route fatto: "Però! quanto siamo cambiati dai primi tempi in cui stavamo insieme!" e giù di foto e nostalgia.
Nel mio caso però c'è stato un cambiamento così facile da notare che mi fa sorridere:
lui ha perso 4 chili, io ne ho presi 4. E tra alti e bassi e bilancia yo-yo, sempre intorno a questi 4 chili giriamo.
Vite che si incontrano, stili che si mischiano... abitudini alimentari che si adattano. ^_^
Io dico che è un buon segno questa cosa, e quando me ne sono reso conto mi ha fatto molto felice.
E poi sono sempre stato un fan della simmetria e dei numeri pari!

... spero solo che riuscirò a perdere io sti 4 chili e a farne perdere a lui 8 se serve... altrimenti dovrò affrontare le mie antiche psicosi ! q_q

V.

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